Just over a year ago, myself, a friend and that friend’s cousin “Grace” were asked to be bridesmaids in the wedding of another friend, “Tara.” Tara did not have a lot of female friends, so Grace was asked,

A woman is 'bummed' because one of her bridesmaids didn't invite her to her wedding when the time came. She was told it was a 'just family' celebration, but learned that a few other friends were invited.

In today's Miss Manners column, advice columnist Judith Martin responds to whether a woman should have invited an acquaintance to her wedding after she was a bridesmaid in the acquaintance's wedding.