Cate Blanchett has been married to her husband, Andrew Upton, for 27 years now. The couple tied the knot in 1997 but could not capture the ceremony.

And while Cate is laughing about the situation now, it’s still pretty wild. She described the singular photo itself as a “blurry picture of the two of us getting in the car,” which is probably not the romantic memento she was hoping for. “I was so sad and upset and I wept at the time that we didn’t have any pictures.”